This is a subject matter I have been getting loads of feedback over. And the truth is: Everyone has to make this decision themselves.
Being fair and not using my own thoughts in this particular post, I am now going to list some of the feedback I have been receiving via Facebook, so you on your own can decide to take a step you truly and independently believe in.
What speaks FOR rh negatives dating other rh negatives?
– The one advantage is that the rh disease is not going to be an issue as two true rh negatives can only have an rh negative offspring. There will be no need for an Anti-D shot (if the hospital wants to inject your with one and you know your fetus´ father is rh negative, don´t let them) or any potential side-effects.
– I personally believe that blood types and personality traits go hand in hand. Therefore I also think people with the same blood types are very compatible and because of similarities, will not experience misunderstandings as much as would a couple with very different personality traits based on having an incompatible blood type.
– Looking at it from the standpoint that the man is being viewed as a donor and the woman as the receiver, the same way a man who can donate blood to the woman is right for her (compatible) and the woman able to receive his blood is right for him.
– Children conceived through sperm donation have a birth defect rate of almost a fifth compared with the general population. This may be explained by the fact that sperm banks only accept donors who have good semen quality, and because of the rigorous screening procedures which they adopt. In addition, sperm banks may try to ensure that the sperm used in a particular recipient woman comes from a donor whose blood group and genetic profile is compatible with those of the woman.
What speaks AGAINST rh negatives dating other rh negatives?
– There is one comment that I have read which I consider valid. According to our own study:
Rh negative people test worst for overall health.
Rh positive homozygotes better, but rh positive heterozygotes the best.
Meaning: Those who are rh positive, but carrying the rh negative gene recessively, appear to have an advantage health wise.
So what is now the best solution to make the world and especially YOUR WORLD a happier and healthier place?
Getting back to my own formula, looking at the man as the donor and woman as receiver would automatically include having healthy heterozygotes as potential offspring without the rh disease being a factor at all when the man is rh negative and the woman rh positive.
Being that rh positive babies often didn´t make it when they had rh negative mothers makes it tough to ignore this aspect and not wonder if there isn´t something we are missing.
The issue however is that giving rh negative men the option to have rh positive partners and denying the same to rh negative women, would make it harder for rh negative women to find an rh negative partner.
Overall, the feedback I have received from rh negative couples was usually great, especially when the ABO compatibility was there as well.
As I truly believe in choice that comes from within as well as proper education, this is now me passing the ball back to all of you to ask yourselves whether or not you will live a better life if you are married to another rh negative.
One thing I truly believe in and am sharing with you now is my absolute conviction that there is a need to have this option for those who want it.
That is why now on Datebytype.com everyone can search on their own for a partner based on blood type YOU choose to search for.
At this moment, rh negative people can only choose other rh negative people.
These settings might change in the future, but as of now, this is the option given to every rh negative person out there to see who is single and potentially compatible out of other rh negatives willing to choose this option for their future.
All feedback is welcome.
And to those who want to see who is potentially out there for them and rh negative as well, is welcome to look for an rh negative mate here:
Well, being A- bloodtype, I’ve grown tired of dating rh positive males. Seems they always compete with me. Its never a relationship but them trying to dominate. I’m not racist or prejudice about bloodtype. I try to love n accept all people as equals, but a lot of guys I’ve dated have really proven themselves to be aggressive rhesus monkeys. As if there’s some evolutionary defect where they not only compete w males like monkeys do, but also with women. 1 in 3 women are victims of domestic violence from a partner, according to W.H.O., world health organization. My mother is rh negative but my father rh pos, n the rh pos side of the family has wanted me to die. They even use terms like “runt”, trying to make someone the runt of the family. The way that an animal would kill the runt of the family. There’s always a competition over who gets family ATTN n who’s the ” best”, when I always just thought the family could love the family. I never competed for any parent or grandparents ATTN. While, for others in the family, its something they attack over. I have been reading a lot about human and monkey comparisons, psychology and behaviour, and i am pretty discusted.
I’ve also discovered that positives more often than not cannot cry, it’s not real or genuine most of time. You’ll also be very hard pressed to see tears roll down the face, watery eyes at most. I’m also Rh-A Neg.
It’s almost like they are preprogrammed and quite often very predictable unless controlled etc. We don’t fit into their groups, and we don’t fit into theirs, it seems as though there is an emotional and spiritual disconnect. I may be wrong about some of this but then why would I think it if it were not to have any part in truth or fact…? So, I agree with you on that.
I’M AN ALMOST 24 YEAR OLD, TYPE O RH NEGATIVE, MEXICAN AMERICAN FEMALE.
BOTH OF MY PARENTS, MY SISTER, AND MY TWIN BROTHER ARE ALL TYPE O RH POSITIVE.
IN FACT, MY BROTHER HAS TWO RH POSITIVE GENES, BECAUSE HE BELONGS TO THE
RH SUBGROUP RH1/RH2 (CDe/cDE). HOWEVER, BOTH OF MY GRANDMOTHER ARE O NEGATIVE
LIKE MYSELF. BOTH EXPERIENCED RH COMPLICATED PREGNANCIES, NOT WITH MY PARENTS
BUT LATER ONES. BOTH ADAMANTLY INSIST THAT I SHOULD SELECT AN RH NEGATIVE SPOUSE.
THAT SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHING TO CONSIDER. YET ONLY 6 PERCENT OF LATINOS COMPARE TO
15 PERCENT OF EUROPEAN AMERICANS ARE RH NEGATIVE. ALSO, I ‘M PROTESTANT, UNLIKE MOST LATINOS. I AM BEGINNING TO SET MY SIGHTS ON MARRYING A EUROPEAN AMERICAN.
I am A-, by late husband who I feel was my soulmate was also A-. One day while discussing with a group of our close friends, we were talking about how we could donate blood to each other since we were the same blood type. Only then did we realize that everyone of our closest friends were also all A-. This leads me to believe that we somehow sense out fellow blood types. At least this seems to be the case with other A-. Since then I have also noticed that new people that I encounter that I seem to make an instant friendship with have also been A-. Could explain how this recessive trait has managed to not die out over time.
I just met someone. This man says fate. He recognized I was RH negative. Totally blew me away when we discussed genealogy. Same Swiss German, Irish Scottish…Viking connection…He did say he knew me? We talked and the commonalities just awesome. He knew we are higher sex drive…he was so interesting…He liked my blond eyebrows and lashes…he asked me my blood type…I do think we are finding each other…He identifies as a dependent of Swiss German Viking…temp lower on average…just everything from his pre cognitive abilities to everything we as RH negatives share. He and I look alike…his comment…said we met by fate? Is it possible RH negative blood types are finding each other? If so why?