The Rh Negative Door Slam
The grey area appears to be the location of residence for most.
Having settled in life, love and career appears to be the norm.
Having friends who screw you over appears to also be common.
Do you cringe when a true crime episode mentions someone being killed by her “best friend”?
What to accept and what to combat are two things we all have been told since childhood.
“He didn’t mean to”… well, how do YOU know?
Recently I have asked members of our Facebook group to add their own options of Rh negative traits and then vote on all the options which they think apply to them.
One option provided was about seeing the bigger picture.
I usually start with one topic and then expand.
Everything is connected and the important dots appear in bold.
While Rh negative children may read intentions, adults try to talk them out of their abilities.
You were likely told to
- respect your elders
- turn the other cheek
- not be so sensitive
- give people the benefit of the doubt
- be polite though intuition tells you to stay away
Were you taught about how to protect yourself?
It seems most people are okay with only the boxes.
Seeing the bigger picture is considered thinking too much.
What is the solutions?
Being accused of overreacting falls into the same lane as many of above mentioned pieces of “advice”.
What you sense is what you sense.
“Sensing” might be the better term for sensitive.
Sensitivity can be faked.
You cannot sense what you don’t.
And you do.
Be you.
Which is your Rhnegative Facebook page?
I don’t go on fb much anymore.
I was absent from Facebook for a while, but I figure it is there where I have already wasted so much energy, I might as well use it to reach more Rh negatives.
Page:
https://web.facebook.com/bloodtypedating
Group:
https://web.facebook.com/groups/rhnegatives
I was told all of those things. ALL of them. I always felt I was different. Still do.
When it comes to multitasking I’m hardly ever not doing that. My mind is usually doing multiple things that’s true. Regarding friendships, I used to make many excuses for my friends and why they did things or treated me poorly at times. Whether they were saying something untrue about me, or I’d catch them being hateful about something so petty. As I grew older I saw the common denominator and I refuse to deal with it. I’ll never understand the why, but I no longer care. It’s envy. I’ve been met with this over and over again. I’m not a bragger, a poser or any of those things that would bring out this bad quality in people. As of matter of fact I want the best for every friend I’ve had and I never feel jealous toward them. Only wish the best. I haven’t recieved that back many times and like I said Idk why but I no longer care and the moment I see it I’ll show them the door. I don’t have time for this in my life any longer. They will only cause trouble and I plan to enjoy my life not live with stank energy lol
I truly believe that one thing people in general hate is our spirit of freedom.
They don’t want to be free, because they are afraid of responsibility.
They copy and compare.
When they see someone like you, they feel threatened.
Inner independence is key and intuition-based people tend to have it.
Well said Mike. I think you may have hit the nail on the head as I consider this. One of the things I think also bothers people is our dissent. By this I mean, we don’t need others to “join in” for us to do something. Like go to see a movie, get something we’re in the mood to eat etc. if I want it I do it. I don’t need a friend to be available to go. I go. The other side is, if they want you to join in to the things they do. I will IF it’s something I want to do. If not? I really don’t get the pressure from those that want you to go with them anyway. The inability to self content is a drain. I think our ability to self content without being so needy is something else that is compared as well. Envied by those who can not.
I don’t think I have experienced “peer pressure” as people tend to describe it. I do remember using peer pressure as an excuse though for doing things I myself came up with.
This is my first time to listen and read what you write. I find it interesting. I am Rh-, and feel good about who i am. I am a 51 year old female, and i live in Thunder Bay, Ontario, CANADA. At times it’s important to me to research where i come from. My Grandfather was adopted, so i have no clue what my real lineage is. I know I am an Indigenous Ojibway woman. Yes, i have mixed nationalities, who really knows.I ‘ve heard Swiss, English, Scotish, Irish, French etc.
I have come to see in myself that people feel comfortable around me, i help with healing, or journey with people who are going through transformation, ie. Addiction, Self love, Self discovery, Intergenerational trauma, etc. I was told in grade 4 from my Principal that “As a leader i must be careful on how I lead people.” I have accepted that I am a leader, and i am here to do my little part or the Whole, as I am only a link in the chain of this universe. My brain craves knowledge, and when relavent, i research subjects as my interest about things gets peaked. Part of my research is looking at where, whom, my resource is. I have a few questions for you if you are open to them.
First i would like to acknowledge and express Thank you for your energy spent on this subject, it clearly shows that you are very passionate and have a big part to play in this life and in the lives of us who seek answers. In my culture we believe every human child need 4 things; IDENTITY, BELONGING, SELF CONFIDENCE, and PURPOSE. With all four, the child will succeed and have wholeness. I’m an adult and still looking for my identity.
Who is your mentor?
What inspired you to this research?
What are your thoughts on Ancestry.ca? I am holding back from doing it as I am skeptical??
Wow, I sound like I’m interviewing you, haha. No I’m not by the way. That is the Sagittarius of me. Truth seeker.
Anyhow, i send you warm regards and may your day be what you want it to be.
Renee Tookenay:}