A fairly recent study shows around 75% of married people indicating they have settled for a spouse and “lost their true love”. While this statistic is frightening, it also explains a lot. It explains why there is so much misery and infidelity in this world and also why divorce rates are so high (and generally growing) and so many children are unhappy. Of course, for years we have been focused on high divorce rates which was of course the wrong thing to look at. The divorce rates were just a symptom of what people usually refuse to talk about. Anything that is deeply personal and touching usually gets avoided in society and instead the symptoms will be discussed to death. … Continue reading Do you settle in life?