- House-hunting
- Job-searching
- dating
Let me exaplain:
I have spoken with several Rh negatives who seem to share uncomfortable feelings in terms of making decisions “from the head”. Decisions that will impact a long time to come. Do any of you feel nervous when put under pressure to make such decision?
I have come to believe that Rh negatives much rather prefer to lean back and keep their eyes wide open so that we recognize intuitively when “the right one” comes along.
What have your experiences been like?
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I had an easier time buying a house than I am now trying to find another used car!!
Dislike all three very much.
Same here. How about regular shopping?
I feel like I have an inner antenna that keeps me from buying crap I don’t need, but the longer I’m in a mall, the harder it gets not to buy a better version of something I already have.
I have a very hard time making decisions very ambivilant. Took me Years to leave the house i built. Looked and looked for apartment. Then I recieved a call from a broker. Turns out the house Apartment found me. The very last photo of my son was at his prom. He was in a gazebo with date. Directly behind him Is the house im now renting. You can not see in his photo because the trees blocked view. I was stunned when It was the perfect fit. I collect Art and Every painting just fit just right. The landlord did think coincidences remarkable. I very much dislike shopping. I have lovers i dont date. Every thing I do buy has meaning or a story behind it. So It has taken almost a year to furnish my place, but its a journey a story on every wall every book every piece of furniture.
I only enjoy junk/thrift stores but put off other types as long as necessary.
I tend not to stay too long in one place and have changed both careers and jobs several times in my life – usually so I can provide for my family.
House hunting- whether I am buying or renting I like to “feel” the place out . It I feel warm and fuzzy then I will be happy there.
Job-Searching- I will normally choose to work for a company that I enjoyed the interview with and felt comfortable. Who treats me as a person.
Matters of the heart: well that is another story! Always fall for the wrong ones.
I also tend to be a little impulsive shopping especially groceries but credit cards are always paid off monthly.
All 3 seem to always suck and I don’t like doing any of them. If its a hard decision, I have to think about every possible scenario that might occur. And once I make a decision, I second guess myself and repeat the scenarios because I don’t wanna make the wrong choice. I don’t think i like change very much.
My parent’s divorce started my first move, I have had many moves since then and almost never hesitated to do so because I never fit in for long wherever I go. I was reluctant to leave my father when my mom moved because I was most comfortable with him, but I moved to attend art school so I had an alternative priority to focus on. Job and education was similar, I was always able to hold a different job and adapt quickly, but I gave up career ambitions since my first child and have put my 2 children as priority in my life. Many jobs I try to keep since having kids don’t last for many reasons, and covid has made things even more difficult. Quite often when I think a job is going well, a coworker will throw in the wrench and make me uncomfortable. Since my recent divorce I have had to lose many belongings and start over with little, I hesitate to buy things that aren’t a necessity and I am not used to luxury (unlike a lot of my family that thrive on the debt system), and I’m also hesitant to buy a better computer and search for a remote job due to a lack of confidence in the job market. My degree and skills have not given me much success for years, but I’m at the point again where I need to make a drastic decision. Dating was always a crap shoot for me, I always ended up with the wrong person because I was following those alternative priorities that weren’t natural love. In the past I rarely hesitated to take risks as opposed to being alone, and now I feel the opposite and prefer isolation but I feel like it’s really just emotional and I’m meant to be doing something else.