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1. - Ken - July 16, 2020 Reply

   i think it has to do w/ predatory behavior and not respecting others & their things much (to not at all). i apply this to anyone, not just RhD negatives. if one has the ability, intelligence, creativity, opportunity etc., then it comes down to one’s own self-discipline, one’s own self-control over one’s own actions as to whether & to what degree one imposes/takes/harms/damages/controls or worse anyone else & their things.

   imo: the best world, people and all would result from people being honest…seeking/speaking/living truthfully…but, this does not mean saying things to others that are true – just to hurt them by stating truthful things. the point is that honesty and truth/truth seeking are necessary to solve problems, understand this world, one’s self, others…and good communication / not manipulation & untruthful things, should generally speaking make things as good as they can be now & going forward. it’s the intent/one’s intention that matters most (and one’s reaction if things don’t go well). people make mistakes, language is an imperfect transmitter. it’s important to know & understand what’s really going on in this world, within our-self & with others (and one can get closer to this understanding & knowledge by honest discussion, contemplation, interest, study, research…). generally speaking: honesty & truth are better than dishonesty & lies. there are exceptions of course, but if people were more honest and truthful (w/out trying to hurt others), then i think things would be better than they are now in many ways (technology may not be one of them, but it may not be as potentially deadly to us & organic Life either). if one is honest w/ one’s self, then it’s mostly just one’s context/environment and those interactions one needs to focus on. i’m for creativity & having fun…just not at the unwilling expense of another. as always, i’m always looking for ways to making my life & it’s living more satisfying, or as sat’ as possible.

2. - Ken - July 16, 2020 Reply

   hmm, seems like my avatar pick doesn’t show when i miss type my actual email addy. i’ve done this twice recently. – have good day all –

3. Robin July 17, 2020 Reply

   I do not engage in social media. Just this one. I believe I’m a magnet for sociopaths and person’s with narcissistic personality disorder. I’m empathic, giving, loving…hey most defiantly am selected by the opposite…I am to honest, I do not really know if I’m liked or disliked…I am just living the best life I can..so I am running from people like you posted…I’ve had many in my life, and don’t get why I keep running into them…they always find me! But not sure if they are RH negatives…The RH negatives I have personally met…have same experience…we are magnets to anti-social personality disorder and narcissists…why???!

• - Ken - July 17, 2020 Reply

  maybe because a lot us are nice…maybe too many of us have good values. psycho’s notice this easily. they show a mask to the world…they can be very charming/manipulative (i’ve read they can recognize their own kind as well…for me: i just never give-in or back down to them – ever)…and if people/anyone has been unnaturally/dishonestly beaten-down and somehow made to dislike themselves for utterly wrong-ass reasons (and if people have been allowed to grow-up naive) – well then, these are the kind of people psycho’s look for & prey-on. these type of people: easy marks/victims, the gullible, low self-esteemers…the too sensitive, the too good – the too different also. live, learn and be wary.

4. Bree September 6, 2020 Reply

   Hi Robin – please take a few minutes to look up and research the term
   “attachment styles” –
   I used to believe I was a “magnet” for them too and in truth,
   I WAS until I understood how much our families of origin and (inherited + developed) subconscious patterns drive our ‘conscious’ choices

• Robin September 6, 2020 Reply

  Thanks Bree, I will research this! I looked briefly at this however not sure what box or category I fall into. I’m a complex being. A bit of a chameleon, I seem to feel everything. So I will research this more intensely to see if I fit. Usually I’m the circle peg in a square. Nothing is ever clear cut with me. Complex yet simple. I’m an oxymoron. Thank You I will study this more.

5. Sabrina September 6, 2020 Reply

   And there’s nothing wrong with you – Ken is right!
   A narcissist carefully selects you and no matter what they SAY to the contrary + regardless of their maladaptive behavior = they only want the absolute BEST in a partner and that’s precisely why and what they are attracted to in you –
   Your goodness and beauty and light

• Robin September 6, 2020 Reply

  What a sweet comment Sabrina! Thank You !…I know my husband Selected me because I was the perfect “mask” to shield anyone from his “True being”. It was actually a very well know psychiatrist through the Hallowell center that put a name to my observation and description of his personality. I read a book called ” The sociopath Next Door” by author Martha Stout. The blood drained from my face when I read this book as someone else was describing in perfect detail my husband…What I had been describing for years. It became with this psychiatrist a training program, much like one trains for war. I ran three miles a day, yoga two hours every other day..He had me read Eckert tolls books to break down my ego!!! I became synonymous to the best supercomputer I could become! Then he drugged me without my knowledge. I’m my coffee. I was so concerned about this training and focused on my thinking I forgot to see things through his shoes his eyes to predict next attack! My son became a pawn. I realize now that he became euphoric the more I sufferred. Then Joseph was the target to break me. My husband as a doctor had prescriptive authority. Joseph my son became a heroine addict. But the night my husband was alone with him, locked him in basement, lies that he did not know where he was, and allow me to find my son in rigirmortis. Then admitted to me, not on audiotape…I walked away…Dating a politician and Lawyer, well I should know better. I realized man it happening again! His eyes pupils don’t dialate…slow touch reaction, they don’t sweat, and if the do there is no odor…I’m trying to break it off. I said maybe we should not see each other anymore…He said baby that’s never, never going to happen! Your mine. So I guess I didn’t learn enough. I did not complement an article he wrote in news paper…He is ignoring me so maybe next plot is don’t engage…He may get bored ? Hopefully! But Thank you

6. Robin Pryharski September 6, 2020 Reply

   Typo supersoldier and I did correct it twice…sorry author Eckert Tollee!

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