I have come to believe that mind/mental pollution is common in Rh negatives. We absorb bad energies and other people’s confusion if we don’t allow ourselves to fight both. That often leads to exhibiting the confusion of those whom we absorb those energies from.
We have a natural way to fight those intrusions, but doing so can lead to accusations of rudeness. Our minds tend to race and impacts of energy intrusions can be substantial.
Have you ever experienced something others consider minor to impact you on a large scale?
I have.
Many times.
ADDED:
My own experiences coincide with the feedback I have received that while we absorb negative energies easily, we also absorb positive energy easily, so who we surround ourselves with is essential.
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That sounds very familiar and it is a struggle for me quite often.
It’s a tricky situation as we also absorb good energy and need it, so while blocking the wrong people, the right people may wind up collaterally blocked as well. Not block in a Facebook sense (though that as well), but in “real life”.
one of the biggest problems for me and i think others to overcome is understanding that each person is a unique individual and what one likes, flavors, dislikes, is interested in, fascinated by, and so on is often not the same as it is w/ others. the Rh(D) positive family i grew up in often/far too often was applying their valuing system to/toward me (it was giving me the impression that i was supposed act this way toward others myself). the underlying assumption is that since i like or dislike something in general or specifically, that all are or should be the same way by extension from my own experiences. so many problems come from this: not realizing/recognizing/acknowledging the differences in others and still trying to make others conform to you/your values (likes & dislikes).
from my experience: myself and the other O negs i’ve known…we are all very different from the rest of the population. i can certainly classify or describe this difference trait as degrees of oddness/individuality/eccentricity. one of the main challenges for the O negs i’ve know is finding a satisfying way to “earn a living”. so many around me were trying to force me be/live/become what they wanted me to be/become. from my pov: the most important thing that should’ve been done while i was a child through to becoming an adult by law, was to have let me be myself and discover & most often do the things i was most interested in and just plain naturally good at. teach the young to be responsible for their actions…give & provide good guidance…try to provide w/ explanations a good (applicable to most) valuing system….and then, give them room enough so they can become themselves/grow into what they really are as much as is possible. explaining things when needed/required is great…pushing/forcing/coercing to make them more like you and less like themselves is not. teach the children how to control, guide, do for & become themselves/what they actually are…especially those things/aspects/traits/that are good and valuable.
for those who able: people need to have enough room & freedom w/ self-accountability so that each can become themselves, be their best and live the most satisfying life they can manage/create and so on – for themselves – if they choose to do so. is this world always going to be leaning toward forcing people to do things mostly, or will it & the people constituting it ever be able to mature & develop enough to allow freedom//choice(s)/the ability to choose for one’s self – w/ the responsibility for one’s own actions to be what & how things live-develop-&-grow future-wise here & in human realms/spheres of influence? this starts/begins & ends w/ each individually. i’ll act/live/be this way…hopefully others will seek to find options to forcing others – if they exist. fwiw: for me, self-defense is primary. you own your self. you/your body is private/your own…in a world w/ choices and one not dead to it all, one should be allowed to guide one’s self as much as is possible, throughout their life, ’til it ends. – ismo –
Ken, you have eloquently & precisely stated a great truth of how sensitive people and children are forced to toe the line of public opinion, about what I think isn’t a realistic view of the truth. Many people toe that line of public opinion because they’r too lazy to think for theirselves, but I think the problem lies how fragile egos of most people refuse to accept the fact that they have been living the lie of public opinion. Also the big problem lies in how that young chilgren are forced to concede to the wrong pressure from others & not to develop/evolve in an optimum way. When society is made up more people who are living up to their best potential, that society will be more beneficial for all, instead of a society where our talents are being repressed. So the RH positive majority society will benefit greatly from what us RH negitive & others ones have to offer, instead of living in the misery of a disfunctional society.
Yes. I totally relate. I seem to be able to take in everything. Expressions tones..I feel everything, and like and I want to know why? Can’t let go of things. Its exhausting. People are suffering right now. And there turning on one another out of fear or stress. I feel it all. So many young adults stuck working at home, isolated, depressed…This one 20 something told me he panics and can’t sleep anymore because his bedroom is now where he works full time…he was so sad, I had to leave and I cried…I could feel his suffering…its wrong…people are sad, they need to have a routine……I could go on forever. But most people really just don’t care…they only care about themselves…they can forget, move on to another task. Other people don’t matter to them. Most have zero compassion or empathy…I sometimes wish I could not relate, so I could just “be” but I can’t..if someone’s angry it can make me angry, sad me sad…I tend to become emotionally conjoined…and it can wipe me of energy….When I painted, or certain activities to hyper focus..I felt at peace..Lately just too tired from work…
some things i will already never forget related to this virus: this past Summer (on nice warm Summer Sunday mornings from July through August) hearing the singing from a church that is about a mile away through woods…they must have been holding their services in their parking lot. it was very pretty to hear, but at the same time saddening for me to think about.
Hi Ken,
I’ve been out of the RH negative loop! I went to church on Sunday with my eldest daughter Lauren, The blue eyed red head ,30 yrs old now. Service outside, was beautiful until priest forgot the words of bible and discussed his own political agendas…Just bipolar! My whole family both sides very respectable, many priests, Dedicated so much for ethics, teaching…most biochemical or science teachers at Boston College. My sweet mother the rebel went to b.c. became a nurse not a nun…worked of course in Weston mass. At campaign center…the sick priests…I’m sick inside… People need human contact, kids have to socialize, I walked away from the fight, the money…for peace..to set an example for my two daughters… here today gone tomorrow!!! I’m looked at for how fast I can work how much money I canvmake for owner. Of company…I’m too aware, and this focus on money makes me question if oaths or ethics exist anymore? Ive read every religion take what I can discard what makes no sense including my adopted dogmas…The universal belief I thought we all shared was the need for human touch, love, understanding, compassion, reciprocation, accepting others differences with joy not discrimination…People need people!!!…I believe that if the RH community has had a collective epiphany…that humanity needs compassion and empathy ……maybe we have a job , maybe ???? We are the watchers, maybe we must teach empathy( if possible)… Why? Because its so important. My patient today 33 yr old in recovery for using drugs to relieve pain. She was shaking, apologizing, …I felt her…heard her words in her head….things I’ve said a million times…and I wanted more than anything to let her know she was important as,anyone. That I was not going to hurt her, or judge her, or discriminate because she had state insurance…that if I had to cancel every patient that day, she would receive what every human should receive from a health care provider…The best I can do….I do not care about your insurance..we will figure it out so your not suffering… ” she had tears in her eyes and said”
.” You did not judge me because I’m recovering from drug usage, you were nice, I feel safe, you helped me, I can’t afford an X-Ray…I’m in pain..but I have to see you again, because you did not judge me or reject me!” I never want to go anywhere else..you made me feel normal and safe…you were nice and you did not hurt me…and i stopped being afraid…Then the 30 yr old dentist who can’t read and X-Ray said the mental forsaken was an access???? Really??? Said to this suffering kid…well what do you expect me to do for you if you can’t afford and X-Ray… ..no mass health refer her out…I slipped my number in her bag.. Squeezed her hand and said call me we just need to call insurance co…there are .guide a person in physical pain to have treatment!” Thats an oath we all took!!! If unable to practice that well i will make it my lifes mission to rip that licence out of these arrogant stupid uneducated unworthy Doctors?Misdiagnosis the mental forsaken as an access???? Not in my world!!!
its our oath to help and treat even if they can’t pay!!!NOW I am invited to the mayors office as a guest of a friend who’s son was murdered…my son dead…That poor child! I wanted to scream!!!!What is wrong in your head not to help your ” brother” in pain?????I would have treated this child for free..like my father…Something is really off!!! I’m ready to hide in the Ozarks away from humanity…..these dentists and doctors are mean!cold , selfish, only interested in money….I’m going to protest next week against this racism….I do think we are alien, not in the literal definition, but that we feel! I’ve seen hate ,evil…and I’m nothing like them!!!!we are minority, we are not like the majority!!! The cruelty I’ve seen, it incomprehensible…action, not chat, changes things…. People are dying from neglect and hate…I’m going to try to change this bogus inhuman attitude!!! Zoom doesn’t suffice for human contact…money should never supersede life….listen to song we’ve got the same blood aloe black!!!! I’ve had just about enough of this deluded game our politicians play!!! These limited licence doctors know less than I did in ninth grade and I want to know why????how are they treating patients??? That’s why so many people dying !!!!stupidity can’t intubate can figure what oxygen input output on respirator blowing peoples lungs out!!!! I was just prescribed three days of cipro not ten three…antibiotic abuse!!! I can’t run because no one will advocate for the helpless! I can’t stay because this gross negligence and greed is making me ….not me….yeah sure I can go commune in nature…but I know what I’ve seen…and I can’t not fight for this issue…its all a mess!!!
Mental pollution… I like that phrase! It is a very good description of the way I often feel after having to interact with people. The Covid pandemic and wearing a mask all day adds another layer to the mix. It makes communicating even more difficult and it is exhausting.
The fear of getting infected is always in the back of my mind and plays on my psyche.
But I put on my happy face and do what I have to do. I try to stay positive and not project my negative mental pollution on to other people, but instead to shine a light.
That is important for my well being.
When I get home from work I feel drained, and need to have alone time. I don’t want to talk to anyone. I am lucky my family understands and doesn’t take it personally.
Life can be difficult in these uncertain times, especially for people that are overly sensitive, like us.
Oh my gosh, I hate this. If I’m around someone depressed or in some kind of bad mood, it literally depresses me and brings me down. To the point where I cannot function and as I get older, my patience is slowly disappearing. So now I have to get away from the person. If I can’t, I just tell them about it and they stop or at least fake like they’re in a better mood and that seems to work.
I really don’t like this rh- quality. It bothers me that I can’t just worry about myself. This is probably why we get in or stay in bad relationships.
When we find the right people to connect with, our needs get met and we tend to just be rather than having to fight this nasty battle. It is great to worry about the right people, but we have to be protective.
Love your comments.
Thank you for still coming to my blog.
I have been doing a ton of YouTube lately and less new writing.
Lesley, you should not hate this because I believe its a gift from God. You are discerning a person in need of prayer and help. depression is a bad spirit and from the devil(Satan) and happiness and joy is from our Father in Heaven. When you discern this depressed spirit on a person, just simply pray for them against the depression spirit. You see when you tell the person about it you have confronted the spirit and it backs off. If you don’t know how to pray against bad spirits talk to a pastor or minister that does know how. Also you need to be prayed up with your armor of God on to come against bad spirits. I do not have rh factor blood I have A I don’t know that blood has anything to do with what your are talking about, I look at it on the spiritual side. Jesus gives us the gift of discernment and its wonderful to know you have the opportunity to help someone who needs prayer. I recall in a church meeting one time during alter call, for no reason I suddenly started feeling depressed for no reason, and it was strong, so I knew it was someone in the church so I raised my hand and told the pastor some one needed prayer for depression and so he ask who in the church was depressed and 3 people raised their hand and one said the normal piano player was out of church that night because of depression, so they all got prayed for, and the depressed feeling left. Praise the Lord. I have had feelings of chest pains in church services and there was one one night who needed prayer for their heart. You seen when the gift works like that, what you feel is not so bad that you can stand it, its a gentle nudge the Lord is letting you know someone needs prayer. I didn’t know for a while that in some people the gift works that way, and some has the discernment by word of knowledge. Just letting you know because I seen others have said they feel the depression, etc also. God bless you and hope this helps.
Instead of worrying about mental pollution & being on the defensive. We should find the inner Light in ourselves, then cultivate that Light, & then shine that Light on others in a positive way with the wisdom that we learned from that Light. If this can be done by more of us, the world will be a better place.