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I’m A negative. I find it hard to find people who can ‘think’ with me. I’m a massive problem solver for people, I can help their physical, mental and emotional needs and have done so for many years. I’ve sublimated myself for others healing.
I want growth in all things and feel life is abundant and ours to steer and I cannot bear victims anylonger. My own victimisation has never been apologised or recognised; I’ve been everyone’s ‘rubber’ person, always bounces back, being kind and helpful. This is now over!!!
Since Covid other people are mostly now a waste of my time: all that happens is that I am gaslit by people; friends will friend with my friends and then isolate me… Family are a toxic mess of ridiculous relationships that I’ve been in the centre of many times, trying to heal, but all my good work just leaves me out in the cold even more.
It took me some time to realise that I’m more intelligent than most of the people I know and meet; I often shock people by being able to fix some object or work out how something operates. I have a high IQ but not much education. I receive no credit for the help and aid i bring to situations, and I’ve decided to give myself all the energy now. I long ago decided the mating game is not for me; I want something more bonding intellectually, psycho-emotionally and get very frustrated when gender ideas/roles come into the relationship. I see that angle as a way to gaslight me once again.
People say ‘how are things?’ as they are, I now say! just having a rant Mike, been listening to your work for years. Thanks for the outlet!
Thanks Mike,
I definitely relate. I think that people have a love hate relationship with me…there are no shades of gray..I know that many do not get me…I have learned to become malleable to diffuse the negative targets many throw my way. I find that the people who accept me are the underdog…we can relate..people who have disabilities or have a broken wing tend to be drawn to my empathy and compassion..and I am drawn to them…however I’m always being challenged by other professionals who tend to get jealous of my intellect or people can’t keep up and really have no clue what I’m talking about and think I’m nuts…I try to say just Google it, but makes me appear arrogant when really I’m loving and humble. I’m so misunderstood. I can’t focus at all makes me look manic! My boyfriend gets me and does say I’m different than anyone he has met, that’s why he fell in love..my RH neg soulmate twin…We accept we are square and will never be round pegs…we are different and we try to embrace our gifts and understand that we are only in control of our own thoughts and actions…we can not control others and how they feel or think of me is none of my business…I believe our attitude contributes to 90% of our happiness and action 10% ..that’s how I survive our unique differences. Thanks Mike!
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I’m A negative. I find it hard to find people who can ‘think’ with me. I’m a massive problem solver for people, I can help their physical, mental and emotional needs and have done so for many years. I’ve sublimated myself for others healing.
I want growth in all things and feel life is abundant and ours to steer and I cannot bear victims anylonger. My own victimisation has never been apologised or recognised; I’ve been everyone’s ‘rubber’ person, always bounces back, being kind and helpful. This is now over!!!
Since Covid other people are mostly now a waste of my time: all that happens is that I am gaslit by people; friends will friend with my friends and then isolate me… Family are a toxic mess of ridiculous relationships that I’ve been in the centre of many times, trying to heal, but all my good work just leaves me out in the cold even more.
It took me some time to realise that I’m more intelligent than most of the people I know and meet; I often shock people by being able to fix some object or work out how something operates. I have a high IQ but not much education. I receive no credit for the help and aid i bring to situations, and I’ve decided to give myself all the energy now. I long ago decided the mating game is not for me; I want something more bonding intellectually, psycho-emotionally and get very frustrated when gender ideas/roles come into the relationship. I see that angle as a way to gaslight me once again.
People say ‘how are things?’ as they are, I now say! just having a rant Mike, been listening to your work for years. Thanks for the outlet!
Thanks Mike,
I definitely relate. I think that people have a love hate relationship with me…there are no shades of gray..I know that many do not get me…I have learned to become malleable to diffuse the negative targets many throw my way. I find that the people who accept me are the underdog…we can relate..people who have disabilities or have a broken wing tend to be drawn to my empathy and compassion..and I am drawn to them…however I’m always being challenged by other professionals who tend to get jealous of my intellect or people can’t keep up and really have no clue what I’m talking about and think I’m nuts…I try to say just Google it, but makes me appear arrogant when really I’m loving and humble. I’m so misunderstood. I can’t focus at all makes me look manic! My boyfriend gets me and does say I’m different than anyone he has met, that’s why he fell in love..my RH neg soulmate twin…We accept we are square and will never be round pegs…we are different and we try to embrace our gifts and understand that we are only in control of our own thoughts and actions…we can not control others and how they feel or think of me is none of my business…I believe our attitude contributes to 90% of our happiness and action 10% ..that’s how I survive our unique differences. Thanks Mike!